So, as you know, I spend a majority of my time trying to understand Really Difficult Ideas.  Difficult enough that most people acquire a “deer in the headlights” expression when I answer the “what are you up to these days” question.  And there is no doubt that Understanding such ideas is difficult and takes concentrated time and effort, but I find interesting that we don’t acquire similar expressions when confronted with the notion of understanding people.
I know, call me Captain Obvious:  People are difficult to understand.
Some might object; but we cannot understand people as if they were ideas.  True, nor would I advocate such a thing.
But.
It seems to me that responding well to people; responding to people in a peace and life-giving way, responding to people in such a way as to maintain their subjectivity as persons, requires some degree of understanding.  Not complete understanding - that, even in the realm of Ideas, is a mirage, unattainable - but adequate understanding.  Enough to respond well.
When I think about this process, I feel the “deer in the headlights” expression coming on.  Because responding well to People is so much more important than understanding Really Difficult Ideas.

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